How I started forming deeper friendships

We've all heard the saying that it's tough to make new friends as an adult. But as I reflected on this notion, I realized that I actually do make friends quite easily. The difference, I've found, lies in how we approach these budding connections.

Deep relationships don't form overnight. They blossom over time through mutual trust and shared experiences. One thing that has helped me foster these connections is leading with vulnerability and authenticity. I don't necessarily consider myself an open book, but I'm not afraid to share my experiences, feelings, and values early on. This openness allows others to see who I truly am and invites them to do the same.

Many times, when we meet new people, we hold back. We fear judgment or rejection, so we wait for the other person to prove they are worth our time before we fully invest. This guarded approach often leads to surface-level interactions where both parties are waiting for the other to make the first move.

But what if we flipped the script? By being the first to show authenticity and openness, we create a space where others feel safe to do the same. This doesn't mean oversharing or ignoring boundaries but rather being genuine and present. When we lead with who we truly are, we attract people who resonate with our authentic selves.

So, go out, have fun, and be open. Show yourself in great spirits, and you'll start to attract people who naturally fit into your tribe. This mutual openness paves the way for authentic, fulfilling friendships and relationships that grow from shared joy and genuine connection.